If you would have told me a year ago I’d be self-employed, I wouldn’t have believed you.
I was sure my path to success was to slowly climb the ranks as an employee, and one day finally reaches the top in my 40s or 50s. I was taught at a young age that patience and persistence were key when it came to attaining success, and I made sure to practice those virtues when I started my career.
But as the years continued to pass me by, my surety started to wane and eventually devolved into full-blown disillusionment.
After 7 Years in the Corporate World, I Hardly Made a Dent
I’d been a full-time employee in the corporate world for almost 7 years, and I’d hardly budged. Many of my friends have been able to jump several levels above me, garnering titles like “Specialist” or “Manager” (not to mention all the lawyers and doctors I know). And despite me turning 30, the age when you become a true adult, I still had the exact same title as my first job out of university — “Coordinator.”
It may sound cliché, but as soon as I hit 30, something inside me changed. For all of my 20s, I was constantly chasing this promotion or raise that always eluded me. So as turned the big 3-0 on my flight back home from Paris last year, a quote floated into my mind and stuck there until I reached Toronto.
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
The Only Way I Could Make an Impact Was to Go at It From a Different Angle
It was crazy for me to keep doing what I was doing and hoping that one day things would change. That one day I’d finally be recognized for my hard work, ideas and ambition. After 7 years, it finally sunk in that no matter what job I had, the only thing I was expected to do was show up, answer emails, check off my to-do list, and be accessible by phone on off hours in case of emergencies.
None of my employers cared if I had ideas on how to improve things, make things more efficient, or help the company become more innovative. They had money to make, budgets to stay within and higher-ups to answer to.
This is why last November I decided to make one of the riskiest decisions of my life — to stop the insanity and leave the corporate world for good.
After 6 Months of Self-Employment, I’m Proud to Call Myself a Solopreneur
Well, I’m 6 months into being a solopreneur now, and most mornings I still wake up in disbelief at how drastically different my life is.
I really did work every weekend back then. Daydreaming from Monday to Friday of that small window of time when I could sleep in, relax, and not have to type emails for 8 hours in a tiny cubicle under fluorescent lights.
Now, as long as I don’t have anything scheduled in the morning, I can sleep guilt-free any day of the week. And to be completely honest, I rarely get up before 9 am and it’s pretty much everything I could have hoped for (if you can’t tell, I really value sleep). I never wake up stressed, angry, or sad, and when I wake up, I’m actually excited to start my day to work on projects I truly care about.
What’s in Store for the Next 6 Months?
Short answer — your guess is as good as mine. Long answer — I hope to continue to grow my brand, launch my money coaching business, re-launch the Rich & Fit Bootcamp so more students can join, and just be open to whatever opportunities come my way.
It’s so weird that as I’ve gotten older, I’ve become less and less worried about the future. I always thought I’d become more worried, but as I mentioned in the video, I think a lot of it has to do with having a solid financial plan in place. I may not know where my career will take me, but at least I know what’s going on with my finances.
Also, it’s not like I have to continue on this path just because I’m on it. The ultimate goal of the course is to be a full-time entrepreneur until I retire, but if I decide to go back to the workforce, I don’t see that as a failure.
The one thing I’ve realized over the years is that you never know what the future holds, and whenever you try to figure it out, it turns itself on its head. That and I don’t think I’ll ever truly be happy doing one thing for the rest of my life. I like variety, I like learning new things and I like taking on new challenges.
Let’s not forget, that I graduated with a film degree, then worked in the newspaper business, then in a corporate law firm, and now I blog, vlog and podcast full-time. My résumé looks like the most disjointed thing you’ve ever seen. Still, I don’t regret a thing. I’ve learned valuable lessons and skills from every single job I’ve had, I’ve met so many amazing people and have grown into someone I’m really happy and proud to be.
And as I’ve said numerous times on my podcast and during many of my speaking gigs, I’m no one special. I’m just Jessica. I am where I’m at because I’ve worked hard and made certain choices. That’s it. So if I can change my path after so many years of thinking that it had to be one way, so can anyone else. Even you.
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